Park Ji-eun, ♥ Explaining the conflict between the Julian River and Jangseo, I will bear the weight..an effort in the middle
Jul 26, 2025
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Park Ji-eun and Julien Kang appeared on TV CHOSUN 'Joseon's Lover', which aired on the 21st, and revealed their first year of marriage.
On the show, Julien Kang calls Park Ji-eun when his mother-in-law, who is living together, cleans up her room without telling her "You don't have to clean up! We can do it."
Also, Julien Kang, who was on a diet before the important filming, ate a diet meal instead of the food his mother-in-law made for him. He said "It's such a shame. My mother-in-law's dish looks so delicious. "I had no choice but to choose a diet meal. My mother-in-law said "It was so upsetting that I didn't eat a single bite."Julien Kang expressed regret, and you may misunderstand that he is keeping distance from his mother-in-law." "Distancing is a little... (respecting my mother-in-law)," he said, explaining the cultural difference from the West.
After the broadcast, netizens' opinions were divided, and Park Ji-eun posted a long article on the 26th to explain the misunderstanding of 'book conflict'.
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Explaining his background of living with his mother, he confessed, "'I've been with my mother since before marriage, and I'm the head of my current family.'" "I have to find a place to live separately for my mother when I don't even have a new marriage house, but I couldn't afford it at all in terms of economy due to investment at the same time."
"From the time I was born, I was separated from my father and lived alone by my mother, so I couldn't afford to prepare for my retirement even though I had a daughter. I can't blame anyone, he said. "I've never put pressure on my spouse, and I'm living thinking it's all the weight I have to bear."
Despite some concerns about the mother's appearance on the show, "More than half of the time it is a broadcast, there is also intentional production", he said. "It is right that there was trial and error at first." "Julien understands this situation well, and now that it's been a year, he has learned a lot to keep distance from each other, so there is no situation like broadcasting," he said. "It may be a shame that this process is necessary, but not everyone can be perfect, so I'm working hard in the middle."
Lastly, watching the broadcast and looking at the worried comments, I wondered if I was really lackingI'm thinking, 'Let's just do the best I can.'"Everyone has their own circumstances, and I think it is most important for the couple to be happy. We will not lose respect for each other in the future, and we will live happily ever after," he added.
▶ Full text by Park Ji-eun
Because of the recent broadcast, there are a lot of comments on the community and YouTube, and there are a lot of people who are worried about comments on my Instagram and YouTube!
There were a lot of people who said it was so frustrating, especially I thought the followers were smart, but I was disappointed.. How do you live like this.. I thought it would be important to share some situations in this regard because you gave me comments such as that. I'll attach a lot of TMI.(It's too much TMI, so I might burst out laughing...)
1. Separation TMI
I've been with my mother since before I got married, and I'm currently the breadwinner of the family. Why didn't you go to your mother's house! It wasn't a simple question to look at
Of course, most of it is my situation. Usually families get married and their children leave their parents' house, but I was in a situation where I let my mother out of my space. I have to find a place to live separately for my mother in the situation where she doesn't even have a honeymoon, but I couldn't afford it at all in terms of economy due to the investment at the same time. It was my situation that I had to take care of both my mother's housing and living expenses.
As you may know, I fell from the time I was born with my father and my mother lived alone, so I couldn't afford to prepare for my retirement even though I had a daughter. You can't blame anyone.
Maybe my mother felt the same way when she raised me alone. But fortunately, I have prepared well for the financial aspects and have never put pressure on my spouse, and I live my life thinking that it's all the weight I have to bear.
For those of you who simply say, "Separate right now."
That's why I have to buy my parents a house right away or pay rent every month.. If you're the breadwinner, I don't think it's going to be as easy as you think. (It's your spouse's money, so you need the consent of the other party.)
For this reason, I started my marriage without reservation and for this reason, I am always grateful to Julien. (This part was expressed a lot in the broadcast interview, but I don't know how it will be edited!)
2. My mother is weird
Since broadcasting is a broadcast, more than half of it is intentional, so this is 100% different from everyday life.
But it's my first time going through anything, and since my mother and I were close, it's true that there was trial and error at first
I think parents need time to be independent of their children, too.
Julien understands this situation well, and now that it's been a year, I've learned a lot to keep my distance from each other, so there's no situation like a broadcast.
It may be a shame that this process is necessary, but.. Not everyone can be perfect, so I'm working hard in the middle.
3. Spouse's environment and couple's life
I don't think there's anyone in the world with perfect conditions.
According to the comments this time, there are many opinions on the directing of the broadcast and the sufficiently worrisome part, but on the other hand, there were also many unconditional negative views on supporting parents.
But there are people in the world who have this kind of home environment.. Fortunately, I met a very good husband and always live by expressing gratitude to each other, but if not, I suddenly thought it would be really hard.
I'm blessed to have met a man who loves me in this situation as a husband, and as such, I'm trying to be a generous tree and a wife who can take care of Julien's shortcomings and difficult situations.
Watching the broadcast and watching the worried comments, I wondered if I was really lacking, but I'm just thinking about doing the best I can.
Thank you to those who are worried
Everyone has their own circumstances, and yet I think it's most important that the couple be happy.
We will continue to respect each other and live happily ever after.
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