Actor Oh Yoon-ah confessed the reality of a single mother raising her son with developmental disabilities alone.
Oh Yoon-ah's daily life with her son Min was revealed on SBS Plus·E Channel 'SoloLase', which aired on the 22nd.
Oh Yoon-ah married in 2007 and had a son in the same year, and after divorcing in 2015, she has raised her son Min alone for about 13 years. On this day, Oh Yoon-ah also confessed, "I divorced in 2016 and am raising my child alone, including the separation of life, in my 13th year of solo life, there were more difficulties, not just ordinary children, raising them alone was really difficult, I was always stuck until the fifth grade of elementary school, if not, I went to a place where my father and children were playing and hung them around someone else's father's neck."
At the same time, he said, `I tried not to make my child feel the absence of my father.'
He also revealed an anecdote that was heartbreaking to see Min approach the father of other children. Oh Yoon-ah said, `When I go to Min's room, I put a picture of a man on top of a picture of a car in a magazine. I think it's like a father to a child." Then "The child says it's okay if he's used to it now, but the longing still seems to remain"
Raising a child alone "I don't think I can say I have any regrets at all. The reason why I couldn't divorce quickly was that I was sorry for making a father's vacancy to my child, and I thought that I would live forever. In the end, he answered honestly, "This is right, I can't see it wrong, but..."
Regarding the exchange between Min and Min's father, he said "There is nothing at all" and "It is difficult to react even when meeting with his father because the child is not common. I can understand Min's father's heart, he confessed.
On this day's broadcast, Oh Yoon-ah was also pictured going out together to get Min's resident registration card. He "It's complicated to think that Min is going to become an adult. I feel like I'm not prepared well.'
Oh Yoon-ah gave up her life in Seoul and explained why she moved to a detached house in Gyeonggi-do for the people. He said "In Seoul, residents were uncomfortable whenever a child made a sound. I was also told, "Why are you raising a sick child here?"I decided to move because the child was shrinking, avoiding people's eyes, and eventually seemed to be trapped in a cage."
The moving house has a three-story structure, and a large trampoline is installed in the yard, drawing attention to the consideration for children to run around as much as they want.
Oh Yoon-ah emphasized that it is important to share and secure your own time, rather than carrying the entire child care alone.
He "Many parents of children with developmental disabilities send a message that they are exhausted and tired. In that case, it is rather necessary to take a bold step down.'
On the other hand, the broadcast also revealed an episode that the actual contact was made after the broadcast, referring to an episode that was given by a 16-year-old younger man in the past, drawing laughter. MC Shin Dong-yup surprised everyone by saying, `You've been given a dash by a 16-year-old younger guy.' Oh Yoon-ah was awkward but surprised everyone by saying, `After the broadcast (which revealed the episode), '16-year-old younger guy' was contacted.'
'Soloist' airs every Monday at 8:30 p.m. on SBS Plus E channel.
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