Oh Eun-young, Hani's bone advice...You can do something wrong in your life. Hurry up and put your head down and look around. (Oh Eun-young Stay)

By Jaewan, Ko

Jul 15, 2025

Oh Eun-young, Hani's bone advice...You can do something wrong in your life. Hurry up and put your head down and look around. (Oh Eun-young Stay)



In the fourth episode of MBN's 30th anniversary consolation project 'Oh Eun-young Stay', a figure skater-turned-five-year-old shaman, a 21-year-old Mokseok detective, a bereaved family of an airplane accident who suddenly left his father, and EXID Hani face their pain and try to comfort and recover. Dr. Oh Eun-young, Ko So-young, and Yoo Se-yoon carefully embraced their hearts and conveyed a heavy resonance.

First of all, a shaman in his fifth year who introduced himself as a 'Good Girl':'"I saw a ghost while I was jumping a figure, and in some severe cases, I saw a figure staring from the roof", confessing the reason for entering the path of shamanism. As a shaman was not chosen because he wanted a job, he had a lot of prejudice and hurt from people, and he eventually cried, saying, `If I can run away, I want to run away.' In particular, 'Good Girl' even confided in the experience of being verbally abused by her boyfriend's parents "Why are you skipping my child's back?" and made everyone feel solemn.

Dr. Oh Eun-young cited the professional commonalities between her and Good Girl listening to the stories of sick people and gave warm advice, saying, `A person has the power to cherish his or her life.' `You will be less lonely if you think that it is a journey to find his or her inner strength together rather than trying to handle it alone.' Good girl "I think I've been trying to take responsibility alone"Now I think it's a good way to walk together," he said with a smile.




Oh Eun-young, Hani's bone advice...You can do something wrong in your life. Hurry up and put your head down and look around. (Oh Eun-young Stay)
The 21-year-old detective with the name of 'Mokseok' confessed that his emotions became dull due to his long career as a detective and it was difficult to communicate with his family. Mokseok said "Kids say they can't talk to their dad, and even their wife tells them to stay away from each other instead of saying anything" and bitterly said "I feel alone" in the disconnected daily life. In response, Dr. Oh Eun-young brought up the story of his late father, giving realistic advice that he needs to practice accurately recognizing and expressing emotions. Dr. Oh Eun-young said, "Eye contact, shoulder tap, and a word of 'I love you' are the greatest consolation you can give your child." "Your parents are still there. You can touch it. Say I love you a lot," he added, shedding tears. Oh Eun-young's sincere confession painted the scene with tears, and Mokseok also showed a warm smile by expressing his heart for the first time, saying, `Guys, I love you.'

Since then, Dr. Oh Eun-young has had a deep conversation with the bereaved family 'nutcracker', who lost his father in the plane disaster. The moment I talked about the story, I felt very relieved, but I felt frustrated and complicated again"I should have done better, expressed more, and traveled together more often." He confessed his feelings of regret. Dr. Oh Eun-young said "It is the common heart of those who are left after leaving a precious and close person" and "You must not be completely destroyed, collapsed, devastated, or uprooted in this process." You have to go through the hurt, the pain, and the pain without going down there." Oh Eun-young said "Just because you're returning to your daily life doesn't mean you're not sad. It is a process of mourning to return to daily life with a heart of love and longing for the family who left. "It's not that you shouldn't be happy. My father would want that, tooconvey the consolation that "

Ko So-young and Yoo Se-yoon cheerfully resolved the conflict they may have with their adolescent children as parents along with mealtime and wooden stones. Ko So-young says "Pretending to be indifferent in a situation where you run into a adolescent child is rather helpful"I'm 'Are you in puberty? Mom's menopause!say ' Menopause wins", which drew laughter, and Yoo Se-yoon also said "Let's not nag for a month." When I endured it, the child approached me first," he said, drawing sympathy from Mokseok.




Oh Eun-young, Hani's bone advice...You can do something wrong in your life. Hurry up and put your head down and look around. (Oh Eun-young Stay)
Finally, Hani considered 'Witness' as her keyword and looked back on herself from childhood, trying to overly sense and take responsibility for other people's emotions. Before her debut, Hani said, "I only had to look at the faces of people close to my mother, but after becoming a celebrity, I became conscious of too much gaze," and expressed her sincerity, "'I've put down the life I wanted to control little by little.'" Oh Eun-young advised "I miss the sense that I have to catch, I just look at the result" and "I sometimes do something wrong in my life. If you did something wrong, you can quickly lower your head and look around."

Hani wants to "courage to be hated", he confessed that the moment he laid down his worries and spoke alone was the beginning of change. Hani then added that "I decided to live like this, but Oh Eun-young also told me to live like that, which helped me." Finally, Hani sang the song 'I'm Firefly' with the lyrics 'It's okay, I'll shine', and it ended with a time for all the participants to share their consolation by shining a warm light like fireflies on each other's wounds.






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