After 14 years of running away from home, my husband finally confessed...My wife treats me like a subordinate → I don't want to live (wedding hell)
Nov 04, 2025
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In MBC 'Oh Eun-young Report - Marriage Hell' (hereinafter 'Marriage Hell'), which aired at 10:50 p.m. on the 3rd, his wife visited Dr. Oh Eun-young, saying that she felt "blood drying" due to her husband's repeated runaway. Her husband's runaway, which began when the first was a baby, was repeated for 14 years without a break. He shocked me by confessing that he had left the house for more than a month and a half, and that he had been intoxicated and led home by the police. The wife asks her husband the reason for running away from home, but the husband has been consistent only with silence, making the wife more anxious and frustrated.
Her husband's repeated runaway came from drinking. My husband, who works at the plumbing and demolition site, relieved his stress by drinking with his colleagues after a physically difficult day, and the habit of drinking and sleeping in a jjimjilbang led to staying out. The husband "At first it was like staying out, but it got bolder. I'm going out to eat X." He confidently confessed, leaving the studio in silence.
In fact, the husband's drunken appearance in the video that his wife delivered to the production team was difficult to reveal to the broadcast. The husband was also shocked when he saw this, and his mother and uncle confessed that they had also experienced alcohol problems. Dr. Oh Eun-young said, "An addiction to alcohol use caused by heredity should not contain a single drop of alcohol. There is no point in reducing alcohol. You must take a short drink."
If so, what is the real reason why the husband repeatedly runs away from home whenever he drinks. Dr. Oh Eun-young paid attention to the conversation between the two. Caught the pattern of wife questioning and criticizing her husband. Dr. Oh Eun-young pointed out that "I understand your wife's hard feelings, but there is a side that pushes her too much in everything."
To this point, the wife protested "It may sound like an excuse, but I can't talk to my husband," and Dr. Oh Eun-young eventually replicated the observation video and explained the problems of the conversation method one by one. Her husband's drinking problem is clearly wrong, but if she is buried in the past and only questions her husband's fault, the problem will be repeated in the future. Furthermore, he stressed that the husband should ask questions and wait for an answer because he is a slow-acting couple.
The husband also drew attention by confessing the real reason for running away from home for the first time. The husband "If you keep listening to your wife, it builds up, explodes, and leads to runaway. It's hard because there are times when I feel like my wife treats me like a subordinate. It's hard to live, and I want to be alone for a few days without thinking. As my runaway life is getting longer, I sometimes think I should not live instead of doing this," he confessed.
On this day, Dr. Oh Eun-young advised his wife, who was tired of anxiety, to reduce obsession and anxiety by installing a location tracking application with her husband's consent. I recommended that my husband be treated for alcoholism.
The two visited Dr. Oh Eun-young with the feeling of being the last. On this day, the two daughters of 'Acting Couple' expressed a small desire to live a normal and happy life like other friends. In front of the children's wishes, the `acting couple' sincerely reflected on their inexperience. Furthermore, holding each other's hands, "Thank you for your efforts up to this point" strengthened the will to change, leaving viewers with a deep lingering feeling and relief.
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