Lee Sang-in, the second, the reason why I copied the autistic type..Oh Eunyoung's heart hurts (my little boy like gold)
Mar 22, 2025
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The second story of an actor Lee Sang-in and a mother on the brink of raising three brothers was revealed on Channel A 'Nowadays Parenting - My Baby Like Gold', which aired on the 21st.
Lee Sang-in and his wife, who accepted their first child's autism spectrum through a meeting with Oh Eun-young last week, appeared on the show. As Oh Eun-young advised, Lee Sang-in, who plans to liquidate his six-year weekend life, said "It's the most important time for the first child, so I have to make a big decision. I'm thinking of moving to Seoul where I can get medical treatment and get a program. We are making various plans to drastically change the environmental aspect.'
However, Lee Sang-in and his wife shared their concerns not only about the first child but also about the second and third child's parenting. In particular, the second's unusual behavior was captured in the video released that day. The second child riding a bicycle in the yard rushed to the first. Second, even if the first child escaped his position, he chased again and continued his intentional attack. The ideal person who saw this rarely showed aggression first. That's beyond the attack and the level of harassment. He said he was shocked.
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Second, he was unable to adapt to kindergarten life. He hovered with his hand in his pocket and circled, repeating only the words 'isosceles triangle'. He also made a strange expression as if he were following the first, and shouted out the wrong words. Lee Sang-in appeared to copy the first behavior. Isosceles triangles are also because the first one is interested in figures, but the second one did not know how to imitate them. He was confused, saying, "I didn't copy my firstborn at home like that, but why would I copy him at kindergarten?"
Oh Eun-young said, `The first is that if there is a natural difficulty in social development, the second is clearly distinguished from the first, but as a result, the second is also difficult in social development.' `Usually, two-year-old brothers imitate their older brothers very much. Autism Spectrum There is a meaningless sound that children make when they are embarrassed and awkward. Second, rather than learning other ways to do it when you are awkward, when you enter the classroom, the sound comes out (like a brother), and it is called a kind of 'mirror'. If you follow the autism spectrum, you're asking if the child who imitates you will also become autistic, but that's definitely not the case.
He then analyzed that "As time and energy were devoted to the first child with the autism spectrum, the second child was pushed out as a result, and the three brothers lived a slightly isolated life without a father in a remote village without a peer, which would have lacked experience in social development." It is heartbreaking that the second child is the only one to follow." We need to provide a lot of good stimuli that are essential for imitation development in the future" he advised.
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Mom persuaded the second child, but the second child "Do you hate me?"I doubted my mother's love. Afterwards, the mother, who was explaining the situation, found the first child wearing panties upside down and went to the first child with a burst of laughter, and the second child was pushed out of interest. However, the mother, who had been laughing until a while ago, was angry and shedding tears, and the three brothers approached and hugged her if she was worried about her crying mother.
Oh Eun-young says of the second child "The child is caring and full of emotions. She's soft and nice. But when the second child cries, he doesn't cry because he's sick, but he's mixed with unfair feelings. She's always upset and has a hard time, but she can't finish it. It's not easy to express emotions, but it fizzles out because it's hard to resolve"The mother explains the situation when the second child expresses his or her feelings. Express it theoretically and intellectually. Second, I understand my mother's words with my head, but it is not accepted with my heart, and I feel sad and unfair. So in the end, the second is not always able to finish expressing one's mind, he said, advising that healthy emotional education is needed for the second.
When the second child asked about his concerns these days in an interview, "My mom and dad won't play with me. I don't think he's playing with me because he's busy taking care of me"He confessed. When asked how it was to play with his brother, "I want to communicate with my brother, but I can't. That's why I'm lonely" and "I'm going to put up with it because I'm lonely, but Mom and Dad are having a hard time, so I'm going to put up with it." He made Mom and Dad sob. Also, when asked if there is anything you want to say to your dad, "Mom looks tired when she sighs. I think it's so pitiful. I wish I had my dad every day," he replied, evoking emotion.
Lee Sang-in, who sobbed after watching the second interview, thanked his wife for just being there. Actually, it's the best gift for our children, and parenting seems to make mothers happy. I'm sorry I couldn't do that much. From now on, I will try hard to do well so that my wife can have more time to smile.'
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