Hwang Jung-eum, sobbing in her heart..Just live for me from the moment I left my ex's house (because I'm solo)
Apr 30, 2025
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In SBS Plus and E-Channel co-produced entertainment 'SoloRa', which aired on the 29th, Hwang Jung-eum was shown taking the first Wang Sik and receiving psychological counseling at the Children and Youth Development Center for the first time.
On this day, Hwang Jung-eum forced Wang-sik to make concessions on the grounds that he was an older brother even though he kept losing snacks and toys from his second son, Kang-sik. Even Kang-sik chased and hit his brother when he didn't give him what he wanted, and Wang-sik ran away.
Peace finally came after Kang Sik had the things he wanted, and Hwang Jeong-eum, who was mediating the fight, was discharged. When Kangsik saw this, he said, "Mom, are you sick?` Wang-sik was worried, but Wang-sik said, `I'm not worried. I was shocked when I said, "Because I don't like my mom." Hwang Jung-eum jokingly said "I don't like you either" and Wang-sik who heard this "Then why did you give birth to me?," he asked back. He then answered "I have a question mark" causing concern.
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Hwang Jung-eum applied for psychological counseling, and the psychological counselor asked Wang-sik to draw a family picture. Wang-sik then asked "Do you have to draw dad, too?" In addition, Wang-sik chose 20 emotional cards, and among them, there were as many as 12 negative emotional cards, drawing attention.
Most of the negative emotions Wang-sik felt were caused by Kang-sik. The stress that was suppressed by the words of her mother and grandmother, who told her to endure even if her younger brother, who is five years younger, beat her and bullied her, turned out to be a negative emotion.
The psychological counselor observes that "Wang Sik is a child with high social sensitivity and a child with a lot of observation" and compares it (observing things) in his head. I don't think I was loved enough by comparing Kangsik and his mother's attitude toward me", he explained. Then "A smart kid in cognitive ability. It's such a strength, but then expectations are high. I don't believe that I am loved only by my mother's words because I have high expectations to be recognized and attract attention. I want the best expression. "Wangsik can't reveal it, so my mom has to express it more" he advised.
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"The child who was born because of me is hurt by me and sick by me, and he wants to be with me, but he can't stay," he said. "But I have to work and make money. Isn't there a lot of people who don't have that kind of situation. I think it's so sad that I can't take care of my child because I have to go out to make money," he said, expressing his difficulties as a working mother, causing regret.
When Hwang Jeong-eum said that he didn't seem to have enough time to spend with Wang-sik "It wasn't like that before, but I think my ex-husband lived only for me from the moment he left home."He admitted that he took care of himself first.
Since then, Hwang Jung-eum has spent a good time visiting a restaurant with a good atmosphere on the advice that he needs time and place to spend alone with Wang-sik. In particular, Hwang Jung-eum gently comforted Wang-sik's confession that he has never met his father when he missed him, saying, "In the future, talk to your mother and grandmother, talk to your father on the phone, and meet him." Wang-sik, who has been stressed by his younger brother, sided with him, saying, `I'm sorry I've only told you to endure it. The mother expressed her affection, saying, "I love both Wangsik and Kangsik, but the most precious person is Wangsik."
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