Oh Yoon-ah confessed her difficult parenting routine as a single mother.
In the 16th episode of SBS Plus and E-channel entertainment 'Solo', which aired on the 22nd, Oh Yoon-ah revealed the daily life of 'single mom' with her son Min.
Oh Yoon-ah "I divorced in 2016 on this day. It's been nine years now", but "In fact, I've been living separately before that, so my solo life is in my 13th year".
Oh Yoon-ah, a mother of a 19-year-old son, now lives with her son and mother. Oh Yoon-ah said of her son "Min is a special son. "He is the driving force of my life, and he has the same heart as a pure and young child. He is raising me as a child because I am about five years old."He expressed his affection for his son, who grew up bravely despite developmental disabilities.
Oh Yoon-ah said "It was very hard to raise it alone. There were a lot of difficulties because I wasn't a normal mother raising a child"I was always attached until the fifth grade of elementary school. If it's not attached, I always go to the place where I play with my father and son and hang from his father's neck." He confessed his extraordinary difficulties in raising children.
He once regretted being single. The reason I couldn't get a divorce quickly is because I kept checking my feelings"Because wouldn't you feel sorry for your child that I'm making a father's vacancy for the rest of your life?" In the end, you can't see it right or wrong, but I still choose to live like this.
Oh Yoon-ah said of meeting Min and Dad "Nothing at all. "Since the child is not common, it is difficult to react even when I see my father, and I have been stuck together, but when my father met Min after being away, I understood that he was embarrassed and had a lot more difficulty than me."
Meanwhile, on this day, Oh Yoon-ah unveiled a solo house on the third floor where she lives with Min. Oh Yoon-ah said, "There was no place to raise Min in Seoul"People around me were so uncomfortable. When the child made a sound, he confessed that when he said, "'It's because Min is sick, 'Why are you raising a sick child here?'
He talked about his son, who was shrinking to the point of going back to the road, saying, "'It seems like the child is avoiding people's eyes after hearing that a lot.'" Oh Yoon-ah said, "'When I came home after filming, my son was sitting alone on the stairs of the apartment building. When I saw that, I thought 'I can't live in a place like this"The child looked so miserable and like a child trapped in a cage. That's why I moved to a place where I could run and play as much as I wanted. He explained why he moved to a detached house.
Oh Yoon-ah had a break by herself over breakfast. Min went to school. Oh Yoon-ah said "When you have a child, you don't rest. It's too hard. It's hard wherever you go, and it's hard because you have to take care of everything, but that time is my own healing time."
He then said, `I think that if I had continued to raise Min alone, I would not have been able to raise Min this much.'" Mothers with children with developmental disabilities seek advice in frustration. To be honest, there's no hell when you're with your child. It's so painful because it's a problem that can't be solved." Oh Yoon-ah thinks it is too necessary to divide and share eye care a little. "The mother should be happy, and the child is happy." He also said how to raise children after countless trials and errors.
In addition, on this day, Oh Yoon-ah visited the Administrative Welfare Center to issue a resident registration card for Min-i, who was born in 2007.
Oh Yoon-ah "I had no reason to apply for a resident registration card, so I was not thinking of getting an ID card. Since my child doesn't go to the space where he needs his ID card by himself, he said. "I heard that ID cards will come out in chips from March in the parent chat room. He said, `Min is old enough to apply for an ID card now.'
About his son becoming an adult, "I have to take care of Min as an adult, but isn't my son too ready?" So I was scared. I thought I should find a way to raise my son' came to think a lot about it.'
After a while, Min arrived and took a fingerprint right away. Min is getting tired of the repetitive process. In response, Oh Yoon-ah held Min's hand until the end and completed fingerprinting.
Oh Yoon-ah said "It feels strange. Was that kid that big. If it was a regular friend, I might have felt overwhelmed, but because my child is still a child. I think, 'I've really devoted my life to raising Min.'
Oh Yoon-ah, who visited the restaurant after exercising with Min, smiled at her son's eating well. Oh Yoon-ah said, `When Min was 5 years old, he was diagnosed with malnutrition and was hospitalized for a week. On average, he weighed 16.8kg, but Min weighed 9.5kg. "So I thought it would be better to eat than not eating, and then I started cooking to make food for Min."," he said, expressing his affection.
Oh Yoon-ah then said, "Min makes a lot of noise and runs around and does a lot of things that attract attention, so I can't sit in a restaurant for a long time because I'm wary of people."I'm sorry." Because it makes a sound and makes you uncomfortable. So I eat quickly and wake up." Oh Yoon-ah said "Today is a quiet day. In the past, I used to run around in restaurants, but now I'm much better." He also expressed his pride for his growing son.
