White-haired mother kissing her young son's gravestone...It teaches you how to live in heaven. Tears

Nov 05, 2025

White-haired mother kissing her young son's gravestone...It teaches you how to live in heaven. Tears
photo source=Baidu, South China Morning Post



A video of a white-haired woman in her 30s kissing her son's gravestone is drawing tears online.

The video touched many people's hearts, recording more than 390,000 'likes' and more than 48,000 comments.

According to Hong Kong media South China Morning Post, a 34-year-old woman living in Henan Province, China, sent her then-three-year-old son Zubao away in April 2023.




Zubao suffered from a rare genetic disease caused by an ARX gene mutation.

This disease is a fatal disease that can cause infantile spasms and intellectual disabilities.

No abnormalities were found during pregnancy, but symptoms appeared after birth and were diagnosed in June 2021. Doctors explained that treatment was impossible, but mother A visited medical staff around the country and stuck to treatment.




She took care of Zubao until she gave up the time and work to devote to her eldest son, and she was admitted to the intensive care unit 27 times.

He spent about 2 million yuan (about 400 million won) on treatment, and his head turned gray due to extreme stress.

Zubao died in April 2023, well over the typical life expectancy of 18 months.




A prepared a large cemetery five minutes from home for his son who left, and described it as a "big house where children can play freely.'

At first, I visited the tomb almost every day, but over time, I thought I had to be strong for my family, so I reduced my visits to two or three times a month. The recently released video showed her kissing her son's photo and saying "Mom is here" repeatedly. She brought egg yolk mooncakes and egg tarts that other children liked, but nagged "It's not good for your health". "A good boy who shares well with his friends" she praised, describing it as "teaching how to live in the other world"."

Netizens may seem "obsessed," but as a parent, it is fully understood", "It may be her solace to nag in the grave" and "Although she has only lived three years old, her love will last a lifetime" are reacting."



This article was translated by Naver AI translator.