The storyteller who said it is difficult to meet new people due to the trauma of domestic violence appeared in 'Ask Anything'.
In the 316th episode of KBS Joy 'Ask Anything', which aired on May 12, the storyteller, who has been a licensed real estate agent for 16 years, appeared.
The storyteller, who divorced three years ago after severe domestic violence, said "Meet a good person around you three years after the divorce", adding "I got a job, but I felt empty and lonely, so I thought about meeting someone new." However, when I met him to some extent, I became worried about his opponent's shortcomings even before we got close. Trauma made me afraid to meet someone new" he said.
Lee Soo-geun "It wouldn't have been easy to get divorced because of domestic violenceWhen asked about the past situation, the writer said "I lived with my husband for 22 years. In the beginning of the marriage, he did not directly inflict violence, but after drinking, he threw things and smashed them."
The writer who explained that her husband had fallen into a bad culture since the 8th to 9th year of marriage called "I contacted my husband several times to come home. After that, I was putting my child to sleep in the room, and my ex-husband suddenly came in and he said, "I wielded violence." He said that it seems to be the reason why he keeps interrupting me. He also added "I haven't been hit in the face so far, but I've broken my ribs four times."
Seo Jang-hoon asks "How did you live together?", and Lee Soo-geun also "Because of the children?When asked ," the sender replied "Yes. The children were of the opinion that I should be responsible, that it was my family, and that I should protect it until I die."
The writer then wrote "Maybe because he grew up in a conservative family, but he had to have a father at home, and if he wanted to live well, he had to protect his family well."I decided to divorce my 11-year-old son when I saw him hit me" he said. When my ex-husband came in after drinking and was turned down by talking to his son and saying, `I don't like talking to him after drinking alcohol, I threw the frying pan next to him and climbed on top of him and committed violence.'
The writer said "I was busy working, and after a few days, I got better and gave him one last chance, saying 'Don't use violence at home until the children grow up and become independent, but the assault was repeated" and eventually divorced.
Currently, the first child of the sender became independent after getting a job, and the second child is a second year high school student and lives with the sender.
Finally, "I'm afraid that there may be disadvantages that I don't know when I'm close to a new person."To the writer ", Seo Jang-hoon "You don't have to be afraid of the situation"It's too young to even start. So first of all, meet them well and don't give them your heart quickly," he said, giving realistic advice.
Every Monday night at 8:30 p.m. on KBS Joy, 'Ask Me Anything' is available on LG U+tv 1, Genie TV 41, SK Btv 53, and KBS mobile app 'my K', and cable channel numbers by region are available on the KBSN website.
More videos of 'Ask Anything' can also be found on major online channels (YouTube, Facebook, etc.) and portal sites.
