Actor Oh Kwang-rok reunited with his son Oh Si-won, who lived separately for nearly 30 years, after seven years. And for the first time, I faced my son's wounds that I didn't know about.
In TV CHOSUN 'Dad and Me', which aired on the 13th, actor Oh Kwang-rok with 44 years of experience "After 7 years with his son. I don't want to do anything wrong, so I'm determined to do well`.
Oh Kwang-rok divorced his son Oh Si-won when he was 5 years old due to the hardships he experienced as a poor theater actor. Since then, Oh Gwang-rok and his father have never lived together for nearly 30 years. Oh Kwang-rok has become distant as he has not been able to spend all of his son's daily lives together. At some point, there was no answer from my son even if I called or sent a message.
The father and son Oh Kwang-rok managed to meet again after seven years, but there was only an awkward silence between the two. Siwon Oh told the production team "I didn't get angry while blaming my dad. I had no intention of restoring the relationship. I have this wound, and I wanted to see it first and then talk about everyday things. Anger lingers because of old feelings"He explained why he decided to meet his father. For seven years, Oh Kwang-rok thought his son wanted to do music, doing things related to coffee and tea. However, the real-life son quit music and was completely different running an F&B space.
Oh Siwon said "My dad and I don't have a bond. My father didn't exist to me"He revealed the scars from his childhood when he was without his father. He also said "I didn't get a call because I was angry with my dad. I should have been mad at my dad...I think it was festering," he said, expressing resentment. Oh Kwang-rok said "I would rather have Si-won's secret in his heart come out to me. If I can get rid of my anger, I want you to throw it all at me and move on," he said, listening to his son's story.
Oh Si-won told a real life that was difficult after his father left. After the family was disbanded, Oh Si-won moved into her grandmother's house, but she had to eat something, saying, "If you do it wrong, you could be kicked out of this house." Since then, I have forgotten about my father's existence, and I have only encountered him in a photo album and in the movie. He confessed that `I first met my father in person at the graduation ceremony of elementary school, but it was difficult to accept his existence because it was unfamiliar and awkward.'
The dissolution of the family and the absence of the father, which was difficult for a child to handle, left a big scar on Oh Si-won, which did not heal and fester. Oh Kwang-rok expressed his regret by holding the hand of his son, who shed tears like a child. 'Sundoli' Lee Kun-joo "Unless you feel it, you don't know. The reason why I keep crying...I also get admitted to college," he said, sympathizing with Oh Si-won's mind. Lee Seung-yeon also took great courage to tell this story. I feel like I want to heal." As Lee Seung-yeon and Lee Kun-joo predicted, Oh Si-won has a lot of things he couldn't talk about. I think we'll need time to talk about it all"He wanted to relieve the accumulated resentment. Oh Kwang-rok prepared to embrace his son's wounds, saying, `Let's talk slowly and little by little.' Oh Si-won, who reunited with his father after seven years, said "Meeting with my father was not comfortable, but there was nothing I couldn't do. I'm going to talk a little more. I don't want to leave it like this with my dad, and I think I'll feel better only if I share it," he said, taking a step toward healing the wound.
Meanwhile, in the next episode 'Dad and I', which airs on the 20th, rich Oh Kwang-rok faces again. Oh Siwon's son said, "Shouldn't you have heard an apology from your dad?He demanded an apology, saying ", but Oh Kwang-rok refused to apologize, saying, `I think we should look at it differently.' Oh Kwang-rok also said "I don't think I'm apologizing because I told you to apologize right away" and Oh Si-won also thought "I'm selfish."," he said, heralding a further escalation of the conflict between the two. In addition, 38-year veteran trot singer So Myung and daughter So-mi, who walks along the path of her father, appear. Soyoumi, who is more familiar with the term 'vocation daughter" hated the term 'vocation daughter.'," he says, trying to make his Japanese debut out of the shadow of his father. However, Soyoumi is on the verge of suspending her performance 30 minutes before the performance. TV CHOSUN 'Dad and Me', which is newly joined by Korea's only trot family, Vocation & Soyou-mi, airs every Tuesday at 10 p.m.
