Oh Kwang-rok's son leaves a resentment young child after divorce lonely, so he doesn't want to look like him (Dad and I)
May 21, 2025
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TV CHOSUN 'Dad and Me' aired on the 20th depicts Oh Kwang-rok having his first meal after reuniting with his son Oh Si-won in seven years.
Oh Kwang-rok said, "I lived separately with Siwon's mother before I turned 5, and I haven't been together since then"I haven't been able to reach you since COVID-19, so I think it's already been about seven years."
There was a deep silence between the two, who met for the first time in seven years, and Oh Si-won, who spoke carefully, avoided contact because he was so angry with his father"He confessed that he didn't answer not only his father but also his grandmother." In an interview with the production team, he shocked me by saying, "'Dad was something that I had no bond with, nothing more than nothing.'"
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Oh Kwang-rok was awkward and tried to examine his son's taste, saying, `We don't remember eating together,' and carefully brought up the story of his mother, who passed away two months ago. In response, Oh Si-won said "It's been 9 years since grandmother and grandfather didn't answer the phone" and "It's already too late when I decided to go find it. I'll definitely see my grandfather."
However, Siwon Oh said "What were you thinking when I didn't answer my grandmother's phone?" If it were another house, I would have said something, but didn't my father think much about it?" he said, pushing his father.
In response, Oh Kwang-rok said "Isn't it something I can do without you answering the phone?" but Oh Si-won expressed deep disappointment, saying "Didn't you think that he was really angry?"
In an interview with the production team, Oh Kwang-rok said, `I didn't know that I didn't contact my grandmother because of me. I thought, 'Even if you don't answer my phone, isn't there something like that for my grandmother?' But he was upset, saying, "The reason was that he told me that he was angry about me." Oh Si-won said, "I didn't even get a call from my grandmother as I grew angry about my father in my early and mid-20s." It was stupid. I was angry with my father, but I didn't even get a call from my grandmother," he said, blaming himself.
Oh Si-won then said "I'm not going to be a dad like a dad since I was young." I didn't want to look like my dad. I left the young child unattended. I thought, 'I shouldn't be a father who makes my child feel lonely'. I've never felt a normal family atmosphere, so I've been empty all along."
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Oh Kwang-rok promised "I didn't take a deep look at your anger, but I knew you were angry at me"Since you talked to your father, I will look deeper into your wounds and talk to you"
Afterwards, Oh Kwang-rok responded to the production team's question of 'Why didn't you apologize then?'"I don't think he apologized immediately just because he told me to apologize. Shouldn't you just apologize without knowing the specific wound. I want to look into the depth of the wound and look at it. I'll do my best to look for it"I vowed.
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