There's no existence..Oh Kwang-rok's son, the reason why he cut off contact with him for 7 years (with his dad)

By YoonSeon, Cho

May 14, 2025

There's no existence..Oh Kwang-rok's son, the reason why he cut off contact with him for 7 years (with his dad)



Actor Oh Kwang-rok reunited with his son after seven years.

Actor Oh Kwang-rok and son Oh Si-won newly joined TV CHOSUN 'Dad and Me', which aired on the 13th.

On this day, Oh Kwang-rok introduced himself as 'Oh Si-won's dad' and "He broke up with Si-won's mother before the child turned 5." Siwon's mother went to her parents' house, and I ended up staying alone,' he said, adding that he had never lived with his son for nearly 30 years since his divorce.




Oh Kwang-rok, who said he suffered from hardships in life when he was an unknown theater actor, said, "It was hard to build one body, but it was hard for three families to liveHe confessed, "I have become further apart (from my son) because I don't have memories of spending everyday time together (after the divorce)." " It was not the time for cell phones, so I had to call home and change the phone, but I couldn't do it at my will. But any expression sounds stupid and ugly. I don't deserve to say what happened to my father who couldn't resolve the meeting (with his son)."

Oh Kwang-rok said "It's been about seven years since I saw my son before COVID-19. I call (my son) and he doesn't answer me, and he doesn't reply even if I text him." Asked why his son seems to be avoiding contact, "I don't know. It makes me think, "The weather is bad in Siwon's mind."," he said with an awkward smile.

As for his son "As far as I know, he wanted to make music, sing, and work as a singer-songwriter. It's been my dream since I was young"(After I become an adult) I work in making coffee and tea, and if my heart is happy, I think I will get along well while making songs"I speculated.




There's no existence..Oh Kwang-rok's son, the reason why he cut off contact with him for 7 years (with his dad)
Oh Kwang-rok, who met his son for the first time in seven years, showed his affection by touching his son's face with joy. As for the reason for avoiding contact with his father, the son continued to blame his father, and his anger did not subside and could not be resolved. First of all, I had no intention of restoring the relationship"The reason why I came out like this is because it's good to get in touch with me, but I have a wound, and the hole in the wound looks like this, so let's look at the wound first and then talk about everyday things." Then "It's an old feeling that I've been feeling for so long that I still have anger. I don't think I knew how to solve it," he added.

The father and son Oh Kwang-rok recalled the COVID-19 period when they lost contact. At that time, Oh Kwang-rok had no choice but to refuse his son's request to eat with him because he was busy filming. The son "I was so brave that I asked him to eat with me, but I was upset that I couldn't eat."He confessed. Oh Kwang-rok understood his son's feelings, saying, "At that time, filming would be stopped when even one person came out with COVID-19, so I tried to have a cup of coffee because I couldn't eat at a restaurant, but they must have been disappointed because the time was not right for each other."

Oh Kwang-rok was surprised by the fact that his son had become an ordinary office worker, not a music-related affair. The son, who was listening to his father, coldly said "Dad and I don't have the bond we should have had in childhood and adolescence," causing regret.




My son said "Dad didn't have a presence with me. He was a person who didn't even know it existed, and he was worse than he was. When I was in 1st and 2nd grade, I was like, 'Where's Dad?', 'Dad, when are you coming?I said ' like a habit, but at some point, my father was not there. I have no memories of daily life that are too trivial." Then "I think it's because I'm angry that I keep avoiding my dad's contact. I think that was my expression. I was so angry that I didn't answer or reply. Not only my dad's phone but also my grandmother's phone. I should've been mad at my dad, but I had to say it out of my mouth, but I think it was festering because I didn't do it", he confessed.

There's no existence..Oh Kwang-rok's son, the reason why he cut off contact with him for 7 years (with his dad)
The son, who had a hard time due to the wounds he suffered from his parents' divorce as a child and the hardships of his life afterwards, eventually shed tears as he recalled the past. Oh Kwang-rok, who learned of his son's wounds for the first time, held his hand and expressed his sorry.

My son "When I see my father as a grown-up, my childhood memories are still in the dark. There are a lot of stories that my dad doesn't know. "I want him to know how hard my mom was alone and how mentally painful and hard I was to see her like that."." "Don't you know it's hard for a girl to raise a child alone?" Nothing can compensate for my mother's years, and my childhood is not coming back. I want my dad to approach my mom with a sincere attitude that he had a hard time living in those days at least once, he carefully asked.

Oh Kwang-rok is a story of adults, but I always think that your mother always did her best to you. What do I deserve to tell my mom that I did my best. Of course, I acknowledge and respect it.' Then "I want my son to say things that he couldn't resolve in his heart without hesitation, and if that snatch is on me and Siwon's anger is relieved, I want him to throw it at me and move on." reported the wind.



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