I'm going to set it all on fire...A 45-year-old couple, brutal verbal abuse (marriage hell)

Oct 28, 2025

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In his 45th year of marriage 'Earlight Couple' has appeared.

MBC 'Oh Eun-young Report - Marriage Hell' (hereinafter 'Marriage Hell'), which aired on the 27th, depicts the story of a married couple in their 45th year. My husband said "If I'm with my wife, I think I'm going to dieHe complained of the extreme pain of ", and his wife also confessed that "I think I'll be relieved if I divorce."

Visiting the studio at the request of their daughter, 'The Ear Lantern Couple' have lived together for 45 years, but they have attracted attention with a 180-degree different appearance. The wife worked tirelessly, removing weeds and planting sesame seeds to the point that her clothes were soaked in sweat, while the husband had a lunch drink with his acquaintances and couldn't get out of the spirits until late the next day.




When his wife brought up the drinking party, the husband continued to ignore his wife's request for a conversation, saying "I have no intention of talking." The husband, who said his wife's nagging was painful, even blocked his wife's phone call. Money as well as alcohol was a source of conflict. The wife, who has been living saving up to 10 won, disapproved of her husband's bill for drinking, the membership fee for the group leader's meeting, and donations. On the other hand, the husband countered that his wife, who wanted to save money by planting sesame seeds in the ground, was extremely violent.

I'm going to set it all on fire...A 45-year-old couple, brutal verbal abuse (marriage hell)
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In response, Dr. Oh Eun-young said "The two people's standards for money are completely different. For your husband, money is a means for the enjoyment of old age, and for your wife, money is an object to be saved." Also, Dr. Oh Eun-young said "My wife is a workaholic. If you don't work, you're anxious and overworking your body. "You have to think about whether working to break your body is really something to be praised for."

The couple's conflict did not end here. An intoxicated husband tells his wife "Don't mess with her. I'm going to set everything on fire," he said threateningly. Dr. Oh Eun-young, who was watching this, pointed out that there must be things accumulated in her husband's mind. As it turned out, the reason why her husband was so angry was because of the 'tree incident'. The trees and flowers in the yard that her husband carefully grew were cut off by her wife in her own way despite her husband's opposition.




My husband recorded 66 complaints about his wife under the title 'My wife, your mother is this kind of person', six of which were about trees and flowers. The husband "I'm frustrated that I cut it mercilessly. My wife won't listen to me even if I talk about it dozens of times. The wound is so deep that I don't know when my heart will be relieved." The wife countered that "I just cut it a little because the yard was small."

The conflict between the two went beyond simple differences in taste and was the result of different values colliding. Dr. Oh Eun-young said, "'Wife farming' and husband' are representative keywords that show important values for two people. It is important to protect their respective domains, no matter how close their families are. The wife did not respect her husband's territory with practicality in the middle, he said, stressing that the conflict would intensify if they did not recognize each other's values.

Finally, Dr. Oh Eun-young asked his wife to reduce work and take care of her health, and his husband to practice drinking less and listening to other people's voices. 갈등이 극단으로 치닫던 '귓등 부부'. At the end of the broadcast, the husband kissed his wife, saying, "Let's put down our stubbornness and live happily for the rest of our lives." and conveyed the warmth of reconciliation to the viewers.






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